Nothing has changed

Today a discussion was started about how I put pressure on our kids... I disagree I have always put their needs above my own and that too was used against me. I was meeting kids needs and didn't meet his. He never communicates he ever needed me... Ever.. But of course that's my fault too... I just didn't pick up on his signals . And then there is the money it's my fault We are where we are I've done it all ... Gee i wish I were the perfect one because you know he has always been the perfect husband always meeting my needs always being there for me ... He's perfect ... Not!!!! I'm sick of always always away being the one that is at fault ... It takes 2 to tango buddy..... Oh and the problems with his mother.... My fault too ... I failed to communicate not him Me I'm sick of it all

One day I'm going to quit if things don't change I will reach my limit

But then again of course it will be my fault because he is perfect